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Thursday, June 01, 2006

A different kind of freedom

Living abroad provides a different perspective. You live in the country without ever being truly part of it. In a way, you are an American island in a foreign sea. I remember a few years ago I was taking a boat ride down the Li river from Guilin to Yangshuo in Southern China with a Chinese friend. During the cruise I alternately read the novel Kim and looked at the scenery. My friend asked me why I was reading, it was hard to explain, especially in my limited Chinese, that in a sense I was at three places at once. I was absorbed in a book about 19th century India, I was also looking at the China of peoples dreams, the Karst Mountains shrouded in mist and fog, and I was also home in America, inasmuch as we always take part of our home with us where ever we go. It was an all together different sensation than what I had visiting Zion National park. I was struck by Zions beauty and I would recommend everyone visit there, but it did not have that ineffable quality that existed that day on the river. It was a boat ride of but a few hours, yet that sensation lingers with me to this day.

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  • One of the most interesting phenomena I have seen abroad is the behavior of Western women. In Asia, women are generally in good shape by comparison, especially if you compare them with American women. Having lived in Japan for the last four months, I have certainly noticed the slim fashionable women grace the streets. In fact, when I see a heavy girl ahead of me and catch up with her, she is an American. The women do not seem to have the swelled heads that they have in the US; Japan is indeed a much more competitive environment. When I overhear some of the Western women talk at my language school, they often reject ouright all Western men. Perhaps, the reason is that Western men pay no attention to them in Japan-why bother. They reject in order to protect themselves, but this is just one perspective from living abroad.

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